Monday, July 6, 2009

Chapter Eight: Why Men CHEAT

I'm back with more Steve Harvey.

Now, based on what I've read on the Internet, this is a chapter that is close to Steve's heart. His 2nd wife has accused him of being a philanderer. Thus, who better to give women a perspective about why men creep creep?

In Chapter 8, Steve claims that men cheat BECAUSE THEY CAN. Period. According to Steve, ladies, this is not rocket science. Men do not view sex in the same manner as women. Seriously, how many men do you know that claim that they are "making love?" Oftentimes, it's "f*****" or "screwing," and the crude list goes on.

Steve also contends that if you ain't giving your man "the treats" on a regular basis, then he is going to get a "sample" elsewhere. Secondly, men will "step out" because they " haven't become who [they] want to be or found who [they] truly want."

The biggest reason that Steve offers is: There's always a woman out there willing to cheat with him.

Steve, you preached the Gospel. On a serious note, how many of you, if propositioned by Obama or the "ideal married man" of your choice, wouldn't contemplate giving him a little "somethin, somethin'?"

Food for thought. So many women are WILLING to give themselves to a man even though she KNOWS that he is already in a marriage. There are so many females who subscribe to the school of thought, "A piece of a man is better than no man at all."

Are you women one those women? Be honest. If so, are you happy with what you have become? If your answer is yes, you are one of these women, and no, you are not happy with what you have become, evaluate your self-esteem and do remember that karma is a monster.

Steve claims that "sometimes, it takes a man to lose something or nearly lose something to really appreciate it."

Do you think that this is true, or does he only "appreciate" his spouse when he is about to lose some $$$?

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